A Letter to my Boys

Cody and Owen,
If I could give you any kind of advice it would be to just live.  Live your lives to the fullest.  Don't be afraid to go on new adventures.  Travel the world.  Don't be afraid to experience new things.  Meet new people.  Try new foods-at least once.  Do not ever be okay with the status quo.  Take risks.  Dream bigger.  When you are told no, don't let it defeat you.  Let it drive you.  Never lose that drive to become better men.  You only get one shot at this life, don't waste a single minute of it.

 Most importantly though, have a heart that loves God.  Put Him first above all else.  Live a life that honors Him.  He will watch over your coming and going. Because one day, you will leave home to forge your own way in this world.  At times, it will seem big and scary.  He will be your protector.  He will guide you along the paths you are to walk down.  Remember to be still and listen for His voice.  Consult Him on every decision.  No matter how big or small. Love people the way Christ loves the church.  Always go above and beyond when you see someone in need.  Remember, the power behind something as simple as a smile.  To someone hurting, this act of kindness can speak volumes.  It can bring joy to their now.  Always laugh and it's okay to cry.  Remember that this life will not be easy.  You will have many trials and hardships. It's in those moments that you have to rely on your faith-on your God.  Only He can sustain you in times of trouble.  Thank God often and praise Him even through the storms of life.  

Always remember what God tells you in the light and never question it when you are in the dark.  God has great things in store for you boys.  "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”
Matthew 7:13-14

You will make mistakes, and that is okay.  I know I have made my fair share of them.  We all fail God often.  Don't be afraid to admit when you are wrong.  Be quick to listen and slow to speak.  Do your best to always speak with words full of grace and love.  Let the mistakes refine you instead of define you.  Let them make you better men of God.  Allow those mistakes to become a teachable moment for you; one that you will not forget.  

 Boys, never forget that I love you two so much.  I am so proud of the young men you are becoming.  It makes my heart happy to see you two serving our church and community with passion and love.  Don't ever lose those qualities as they are great ones to have.  Always strive to do your best and to leave your mark on this world-especially for your generation.  Let your light shine as bright as possible so that others may see and feel the love of God working through you.  Now, go out and make a difference.  Always remember, no matter how big you get or how old you are, always tell your mama you love her and give her hugs and kisses.  

 I love you. 

 Mommy

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