After my former spouse left, I knew immediately that I needed to work on forgiving him as it was part of the healing process. This was the last thing I wanted to do-EVER! That meant I would have to choose to forgive him for leaving, for the years of mental abuse, for the effects his pornography addiction had on me, and for the multiple times of infidelity. I can remember arguing with God about this. How could I forgive a man that did all of that to me? He doesn't deserve my forgiveness. I was mad and sad and angry all at once and God wanted me to choose to forgive him? I didn't see any possible way this would ever happen. Then God began to work on me. He started to mend my broken heart. He reminded me that even though someone wrongs us, we are to always forgive. No matter what. God reminded me that I make mistakes too, and He always forgives me. I know that I do not deserve His forgiveness, but He forgives me anyway. I realized that all of t...